Love & ENM Coaching

with Iskra Tsen

Are you new to Ethical Non-Monogamy? Or you've been practicing for a while but are coming up against a new and unique challenges? If you need support and guidance within your relationship(s), I 'm here to help you navigate this unfamiliar path.

Areas Of Support

Starting Your ENM Journey:

Explore new ENM relationships dynamics confidently.

Aligning Head & Heart

Harmonize thoughts & emotions to create a balanced and holistic approach to decision-making in relationships

Designing Relationship Structures

Create dynamics and agreements within relationship(s) to support the needs, values, and goals of everyone involved.

Strengthen Essential Skills

Set & maintain healthy boundaries, communication, and conflict management.

Exploring KINK

Discover diverse and consensual expressions of intimacy that go beyond traditional norms.

Sexuality & Gender

Expand your knowledge and understanding of the spectrums of sexuality & gender expression.

"Love in its many forms is the most profound way to connect with ourselves and others."

Deborah Anapol

Iskra Tsen
(they/she)

About Your Coach

In my 12-year journey of practicing consensual non-monogamy (aka ethical non-monogamy or ENM, CNM), alongside my exploration of energy work, I've unraveled deeply buried parts of myself, leading to my coming out as a queer and non-binary person. This process allowed me to fully embrace and love previously wounded parts of myself. Through this transformative journey of self-healing, I've committed to guiding others on their paths of coming out and exploring non-radiational ways of relating and loving. As a Poly-Queer Life Coach, I offer a safe and supportive space for individuals to step into their authentic selves, navigating the complexities of ENM/CNM relationships within the queer community with empathy and understanding.

ENM Coaching

We help guide and support individuals and couples who are curious or have some experience in ethically non-monogamous relationships, helping them navigate communication, boundaries, and emotional dynamics.

Queer Coaching

We provide supportive and affirming process that empowers LGBTQ+ individuals to navigate personal, professional, and relational challenges while embracing their authentic selves.

Love Coaching

We focus on helping individuals and couples and/or polycules enhance their romantic relationships, improve communication, and deepen emotional connections.

BDSM/Kink Coaching

Learn from a professional Domme!!!

We offer guidance and education for people curious of exploring BDSM and kink, helping them establish trust, communication, and safe practices.

Frequently Asked Q's

What is an Exploratory Session?

An Exploratory Session is a 60-minute consultation that can be done remotely. It’s an opportunity to share your story, express what you are looking for, ask questions, and receive immediate feedback

How do I prepare for a coaching session?

The best preparation is to be authentic and bring your whole self to the session. Being open about your feelings and experiences allows for more effective guidance and personal growth.

What’s the difference between open relationships, polyamory, and swinging?

These terms all fall under the umbrella of ethical non-monogamy but differ in practice and intention. Understanding these differences can help you choose the right form of relationship that aligns with your desires and values.

How do I know if polyamory is right for me?

Consider your feelings about love, relationships, and monogamy. Reflect on your capacity for managing multiple relationships and the emotional complexity that comes with them. It may be helpful to read about polyamory, join discussion groups, or speak with individuals who have experienced polyamorous relationships.

What can I expect in a typical coaching session?

A typical coaching session involves discussing your unique situation and challenges, exploring behaviors affecting your relationships, and developing plans to foster healthy and sustainable relationships.

What can I expect in a typical coaching session?

A typical coaching session involves discussing your unique situation and challenges, exploring behaviors affecting your relationships, and developing plans to foster healthy and sustainable relationships.

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